Responsibility for our lives is something we never lose but which we often deny. As I’ve said many times before, you can give away control but never responsibility. Remember what I said in class it’s up to “moi”. The ultimate responsibility for how your life turns out rests with you and you alone… not with your parents, your boss, your colleague, your ex, your society, father, mother, sister, brother, husband, wife, God, or anyone else. You can blame whomever you wish, but you’re the one who must experience (or endure) the results.
I sometimes receive feedback from people stuck in the pattern of thinking about what they don’t want. They claim to be focusing on their desires religiously, and they ask me why their goals don’t seem to be manifesting. Then they explain all the reasons they believe they’re having so much trouble.
The Law of Attraction brings you what you think about. To think is to ask. I cannot help but quote the Word of God that clearly says; “ Ask and You shall Receive, Seek and You will Find, Knock and the Dorr will be Openned.” Every thought is an intention. Just be careful cause— it doesn’t filter what you ask for. If you think about what you want, you get it. If you think about what you don’t want, you get that too. Once again, it’s about ‘Moi’ thoughts.
If you want to manifest your desires, then it makes no sense to write statements like the above. Even when your desires haven’t yet manifested, remain hopeful and optimistic. Pour on the positive intent, set your RAS or the GPS of your mind on the right co-ordinates and allow the Law of Attraction to work with you. Stay in the present moment. Be on the lookout for synchronicities. If you start getting frustrated, take a walk or do a meditation to nip it in the bud. Otherwise you’ll negate your desires by intending their opposite.
The key to mastering the Law of Attraction is responsibility. Remember the word ‘Responsibility’ comprises of the 2 words ‘RESPONSE’ & ‘ABILITY’ : It is our Response to the best of our Ability that is required. You must accept personal responsibility for everything in your life. And I do mean everything. If you perceive it, you’ve manifested it. Whatever you give your attention to will expand.
How do you learn to stop thinking about what you don’t want? Accept responsibility for attracting it. This raises your consciousness and makes you more capable of successfully applying the Law of Attraction to get what you do want.
What if I deny responsibility for what I experience? What if I say, “Something out there is causing these problems, and I’m only noticing what is happening”? Then I’m powerless to change my reality. If I focus my thoughts on what I’m already getting, I’ll unknowingly activate the Law of Attraction to continue bringing me more of the same. My situation will never fundamentally change. And how can it change? If I’m thinking about what I’m already getting, then I’m manifesting a loop. It’s stable. If my life is filled with the manifestation of my desires, I’m in heaven. If my life is filled with what I don’t want, I’m in hell.
If you’re determined to think about what you don’t want, I certainly can’t stop you. The best I can do is to hold you accountable for your results, which can help you become more aware of what you’re doing to yourself. But if you really want to beat yourself up, go for it. Just note that I won’t be joining you for the subsequent pity parties down the road. Only you can save you. It’s up to ‘Moi’. Start learning to Visualize all the important events, desires, goals, and plans of your life.Remember, ‘If you can see it, you can do it’ ; first you visualize then you can actualize it !
Personal testing is one of the reasons I accept the Law of Attraction. It’s proven itself to me beyond a reasonable doubt. I’ve been working with it consciously for a few years now, and it still freaks me out sometimes. Who’d have thought we could attract what we want just by thinking about it? Does reality really work that way? If it seems impossible, the thought of its impossibility will manifest like any other. If you don’t believe in the Law of Attraction, you’re actually using it to negate itself, which is a perfectly valid application, albeit one that will bring you lots of frustration.
One of the reasons I’m so happy and passionate about my life is that I’m getting better at aligning myself with the Law of Attraction. ( or as I like to look at it : ‘The Law of God’.) I’m having a wonderful time experimenting with it. As I think about what I want, I keep wondering when it’s going to show up. When I try to control how it comes to me, I usually block it. But when I relax and allow it to happen, that’s when it finally begins showing up. The right people, resources, and opportunities somehow find me, usually through unexpected synchronicities.
The sceptical part of my brain has trouble believing reality could actually work like this. It requires a new model of reality in which the Law of Attraction makes sense. Consequently, I’ve had to make major adjustments to my beliefs to compensate for the Law of Attraction. This led me towards a more subjective view of reality, which eventually became my default way of thinking.
It all begins with accepting 100% responsibility for your reality. You’re the one who’s creating it right now. Are you creating what you want or what you don’t want? Change your dominant thoughts, and you’ll see reality change as well.
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